Menhouldarrywhenheyareyoung,andwonhouldarrywhenheyareyoung.Thihabeenanunggpriplei.Alhoughiinowadvoaedogeoandengagenewweddg,paredohe1960and1970,ihabeeoreurioandheipleoofpeoplenolongerei.IafroZhuhou,HunaabouheweddgoZhuhou.
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Mahaereoprope
Whennandwonreahheagee,heirparenfirfdaahaer.Whehaerdiverhahereiooneofappropriaeagehefaily,heyfiruniaewihheirparenandhenheduleadaeeablddaeloaion,uallyaarepe.Onhedayofheare,bohheanandhewoangoohedeignaedloaion,aealooaeahoher,ayafewword,andhowheirheerfulperonaliyonhepo.Generally,heywillreurnhoandaloheahaer.Aferagreeg,heanwillhooeadaefagen(wealliDghihere).Thereialoaypehaifavoredbyoneelforbyparen,uha.Ifheyarereed,parenwillenranaquaaoaaaahaer.Inhe1960and1970,anygoarriedrurarea,andhehirdrepreenaiveofiblggegarriedwaore.Thiiallednewreivegegarriedwiholdreive,whihievenorejoyful,buhidofloereivegegarriediillnogood.
Theerequirefourdofgif,hai,afewpieeofloh.Defailiewilledaanddafabriylono,andhoewihpoorenoidiionwillehailohandono.Inhiway,evenifheeiueful,heangoohewoan''hoandendogifohewoan''hoforheNewYearholiday.Generally,hefourdofgifarehea,naly,heBegngofurFeival,heDragonBoaFeival,heMid-AuuivandheprgFeival.Mea,egg,noodleAndapieeoffabri,aferayearoro,whenbohpariehavenoobje,hewoanellheahaerhahe玉hehoeaple(hai,heanellhewoanheieofhehoewornbyhifaily).Theangivehewoanooneyfheaple,whihwaonlyafewenof玉anahai.Thewoaoaeapairofhoeforeahberofhean''failyandahhewihhand-ebroideredole.
Preparaionbeforeandaferarriage
Aneearydowryforwon
Beforearriage,heangivehewoanooobuyadowry.Dependgonhefaily''enoidiion,hegivehewoanhreeofivehoand玉anaone,andregardleofhowueyhereeivefrohean,heehgbealloaed.ewardrobeorbaionabe,oable,fourhair,oable,onefoodabe,onewahbara,ewoodenae,oneallwoodenaeorleaherae(iirohergerraveeapreen),ohowaerbole,upandoohbrhe,aupoforboilgwaer,preureoerandoherdailyie,fourndapairofpillow.Thoewihgoodfailyndiionwillbeequippedwihan''biyle,aegahe,abdwhieTVe,ari,efaoaerhowueyheangivehewoan,hearenbaiallydon''euhofheoney,andheyreurnioheirdaugheroaenaeroney.
Whaheanprepare
Inaddiionogivghewoanhreeorfivehoand玉an,heanonlyoprepareoneoronewhoeanddoen''areabouanyhgele.Ifhean''failyipoorandhereinodowryforhewoan,hewoanwilllhedailyie.
Onhedaybeforearriage,heanpayagifohewoan.Thegifdehalforonepig,hi,loheorfabri,hoeandoofhearen,broherandier.Allhghouldbepupe.Abigrahouldbeedoarryheohewoan,ohahewoan''onlooernowwha''gaagforhefood,reuroheanheday.
Thewoanhouldprepareafollow
Puredpahip,egg,dybiui,andlohe,hoeandowhenyoueehean''paren,broherandierhean''ide.Inaddiion,heparenaloogivehedaugherobooney(huohoanddependgonhendiion).Beien,Thepurpoeioeeifhewoanhagivenenoughoneyforhenaer.
Onhedaybeforearriage,hewoanwillnoifyheanhoeoplewilleolifhgheday.Generally,eighororenarerequiredbeaehewoaoeionwaarrangedforheanogoohewoan''hoeoweleher.Thenhadogo,dghegroo,obride(won),fiveoigongandbalea,andpeoplearryghg.Theyallwenohewoan''hoeohavebreafaogeher,blogandpyg.Aferdhewoaoffheweddg,wihoneanandowoneegoffhebride.Theproeihgooaepfir,andhenhegrooandbridefollowedwihubrel.Regardleofheweaher,eahperonhadanubrel,Blogagallhewayoheanfornh.
Aferdheweddgeialoheolivelyedurgarriage.Thepurpoeiohelphegrooandbrideeliaehefeelgofhyne.Variraryoaeheirbodyandna,uhaouhoouheagdae,opeoplelighgfireraer,ienfihg,andahpig.Theoreri,hebeer.Noaerhowbigorall,heyaeauoieaheywan.Aferhe1980,hehabiofagweddgegraduallygedowahgovie,video,andgg.
arriagehaerawaheiple,epeiallyforoffieworerandworerwhoaehenaionalfood,lealoneworryabouanyhg.Theyhadfreelove,andwhenheygoarried,heirunihadahareofhehoe.Theunileaderwouldperonallyholdheweddgforheyounguple,andaferarriage,heyounguplelowlyadeofurniure.Unlienow,hoebeboughbyheelve,andopeoplewouldbeeproperyveforalifei.Thaerawarulyoiali!
Laer,wihhedevelopnofoieyandheiprovenofaeriallivgandard,berohalgiferged,argwihhreeajoriebiyle,wahe,andegahe.Laer,idevelopedofourajorie,fiveajorie,andoon,unilnow,Iwon''a玉haboui.